Confidence vs Arrogance

Confidence vs. Arrogance

We’re all well aware that women want a man that projects an image of confidence and self-assurance. The question is, do we go out of our way to display it, or does it naturally display itself? How does one properly show confidence, and where does it tread into arrogance?

We’re going to do something different in this article and create an open discussion. Here are some quotes and videos as food for thought. I’d love to hear your opinions in the comment area. I’ll be chatting with you there. Let’s dive right into this.

Confidence

These are some quotes that other people have said regarding confidence:

Confident people have a broader sphere of influence, and earn more loyalty and respect than those who just use bravado.”

If what you’re seeking is lasting relationships, long-term success and quality of life in all areas then you will be better served to forego the pompous acts of the arrogant for the humility and quiet confidence displayed by true leaders.”

Confident people are totally okay with other people knowing nothing about what they have accomplished.”

The truth is that being an arrogant person may serve you in the short term, it rarely relates in lasting relationships built on a foundation of loyalty and trust. Arrogant people will usually find themselves surrounded by lots of fair-weather friends who try to exploit them for things, but at the first sign of trouble all you will see is their backs as they run for the hills.”

I think you can always tell how confident a person is about themselves by the way they respect or treat the ‘little people,’ they never look like they are trying hard to impress other people, and never put others down around them to come out the better person.”

Arrogance

I think it’s okay to be arrogant as long as you’re getting the desired outcomes you want.”

Arrogance is fine, it conveys a sense of power to control situations and others which is essential in leadership.”

Accomplished people naturally come off as arrogant.”

Being both a cocky and funny guy is one of the surefire ways to spark attraction with women.”

Share Your Thoughts

I realize that this is a very controversial subject, especially to those who consider themselves confident or have been called arrogant. Share your thoughts on this subject! I’m going to get as many women as I can to join in on this conversation, so ask your girl friends to share their input as well.

Here are some questions to start off a discussion:

Do you think arrogance ever pays off?

When does confidence turn into arrogance?

To the women out there:

Do you think cocky or arrogant guys are attractive?

What is the difference to you between an arrogant guy and a confident guy?