Steps For Becoming Highly Attractive

Think of your personality as a pie chart that other people can examine. What’s your most attractive quality?

Have you ever been attracted to someone based on one great quality they had? Maybe it was their positivity. Maybe every time you were around them you laughed and had a good time. Maybe you learned massive amounts of interesting stuff whenever you were around them.

Here are some steps to reaching your next level of attractiveness:

1. Question: What do you consider some of your best qualities?

We’ve all been complimented on one thing. Maybe you’re the funny one in a group, or maybe you’re known for tearing up the dance floor. Whatever it is, articulate your strength points. Write them down. After you’ve got a few, pick one that people find attractive about you. If you’re not sure about it, ask a friend what your best quality is and what they love most about you.

2. Cultivate Your Strength Areas

You already have the upper hand over many guys in your strength area, and if you build it to maximum capacity you’ll have a monopoly over all the guys out there. ; ]

3. Pick One Weak Point About Yourself

What’s one area of yourself that you haven’t really focused on, but you’ve always wanted to be a strength? If you could have any quality in the world, what would it be? Is it self-discipline? A healthier body? The ability to make more people laugh? To be able to lead a group? List a few weak points you would like to change, and then pick the one that you think would best supplement your strength area. For example, if you were both adventurous, and humorous, that would be one great combination.

4. Begin Building on Your Weakest Point Immediately

You already have a strength area, but you need to be a little more well-rounded. Create a plan to immediately start building on your weak point. Whether it’s getting a taking a seminar, reading a book, or partnering with a personal coach, take that immediate step to build that weak point. If you’re looking to become funnier guy, buy a book on humor, get a comedy tape, or immediately make plans with one of your more humorous friends to soak up some lessons.

Attractiveness is not limited to your genes. Do it your way.